How Can We Lead Prayer Better?

What are the problems involved in evangelical and charismatic approaches to public prayer? And how can it be done better?

In my (charismatic free) wing of the Church our services don’t feature much written or traditional prayers or liturgies. We prefer to change the exact words we speak to reflect the type of community we are waking in or what we think the Holy Spirit wants us to do at any particular moment.

There are big advantages to this approach. 

It allows us to be flexible, fresh and to respond to the needs and characteristics of the people in Church. It also allows us to be alert to what the Holy Spirit might want to do at the time we are ministering. Finally it allows us to model for the people we are pastoring that they can pray in any language and in a way that is real for their personality and background.

With that said, emphasising contemporaneous prayer also has drawbacks. 

Andrew Wilson has written about the need,  in the midst of spontaneity,  to maintain the essential elements of Christian worship (like praying, reading Scripture, taking communion etc). Otherwise our worship becomes progressively less and less full of the riches of worship the spirit has given to his Church in Scripture and Tradition. We want to be “Eucharismatic” in our worship.

My concern here is a slightly different one. When the charismatic or evangelical worship leader, venue pastor or preacher leads the Church in spontaneous or unplanned prayer, he (or she) is writing liturgy and language that needs to sum up, express and model the concerns of the Church, the needs of the world and the right way to address God. All at the same time as teaching the people how to do that for themselves. 

This is a much harder task to do well than one might imagine. It involves formulating Scripturally sound, theologically rich, pastorally sensitive and reverent words, expressing them contemporaneously and clearly, and then fitting them into the rhythm and setting of an informal worship service. 

If we are not careful the spontaneous prayer we bring becomes all the things we want to avoid as people of the Spirit and Scripture. 

I think there are three particular areas we need to be careful about (drawn from my own failings leading prayer and worship over many years):

  1. Not including much, if any prayer, in public services.
    Here we end up having extended singing followed by a sermon (and maybe communion). There might be a short prayer between songs or at the end. But, if we’re honest, it’s not a particular feature of the service, certainly compared to, for example, sung worship or a talk. 
  2. Having my own personal prayer time in front of the congregation rather than leading them in prayer.
    Here I end up praying in a slight mumble with my eyes closed and talking quickly and informally, as if I am having an internal monologue. The problem is I am not leading the congregation at this point; instead, they are just watching me pray.
  3. Praying prayers that, instead of expressing the immediate, urgent, prophetic intercession of the Spirit praying through me, become predictable, banal, cliched, and dominated by non-words that litter speech such as “just…”, “yeah…” and so on.
    The ‘just’, and ‘yeah’ prayers are actually the least problematic form of this. It gets much worse when public prayer becomes dominated by the concerns or vocabulary of the leader’s own politics or concerns, narrate their own thoughts about life, politics, social issues or Jesus (often with the phrase ‘God, you know that… followed by explaining it to him anyway). At times they can become offensively bad. The most egregious one I’ve heard used the phrase ‘blaze, Spirit, blaze’ from Shine Jesus Shine (an excellent song people are wrongly snobbish about) to segue into intercession about a major fire in which people had lost their lives. It was, to say the least, not optimal.

What can we do to remedy these difficulties if they begin to arise in our context or ministry?
One approach would be to begin using formal, written liturgies. That approach might be one we should consider (I’ll leave that to Andrew to argue for). I think, however, that there is another approach that would allow us to keep the good that we find in spontaneous prayer while also remedying its difficulties.

Resolving these issues requires us to think a bit more about what is happening when we pray publicly, particularly if we do so spontaneously.

Filling Our Stores: The Christian Tradition of Prayer

When we speak publicly, whether in prayer, preaching or some other way, we are essentially bringing words, ideas and idioms out of our minds and memories. No speech is, in that sense, truly spontaneous. We are a bit like jazz musicians Who seem to be producing spontaneous, improvised music but are doing so using scales, techniques and phrases they have internalised over time practising. Or footballers,  who produce moments and movements of inspiration in the immediate context of a match but draw on hours of drills and practised skilIs. 

If we want to lead prayer well,  therefore, we need to practise. 

That means filling our minds and memories with great prayer, Scripture and discipline so that we have something to draw from when we pray in public. In some ways, this is more important for those of us in traditions that don’t use a formal liturgy in our public services than it is for those who do. It is precisely because we want to be able to lead the congregation in spontaneous prayer in response to the Spirit’s leading in the moment of worship that we particularly need to fill our minds and mouths with the language, cadence and concerns of great prayers. We might repeat these exact prayers as we lead people to pray. More likely, though, is that we will begin to pray with a greater fluency and depth when we create our own prayers. We will also find the content of our prayers becomes more timeless and aligned with the eternal and historic concerns of the Church and the saints she contains and less dominated by the phrases and personal preoccupations we unconsciously find ourselves repeating.

Similarly, disciplining ourselves to include in our daily devotional life a set time in the Psalms or the Divine Office imprints on our minds and hearts the central importance of prayer as a discipline for both public and private worship. We will find, then, that the impulse to overlook intentional times of public prayer on the basis that there is no time in the service or that it interrupts the “flow” or mood of sung worship is easier to overcome. 

Moreover, the discipline of reading (out loud) the prayers of the historic Church and of Israel is an antidote to the habit of mumbling to oneself when leading in prayer. These are prayers written and published with the intent of being read publicly. They have that feel about them.  As we begin to make them a part of the unconscious reservoir from which we draw our public prayers, we will begin to find that we construct and project our prayers with a similar tone.

What Does This Mean in Practice?

So what does this mean for those Who regularly lead prayer in charismatic or evangelical  services? 

There are, I think, three specific things that will transform the way we pray, and particularly how we pray in public.

  1. When praying, remember we are leading the congregation and not just praying on our own in front of them.
    That means:
    1. Begin your prayer with clarity. Don’t just let the prayer ’emerge’ from under your breath.
    2. Go at a pace where the congregation can follow what you are saying and agree with it. God can understand you at your fastest speed but we can’t.
    3. Think about what you want to say and then say it. Don’t feel the need to keep on speaking when you don’t have anything to say at that moment.
  2. Plan to pray as part of your service leading.
    If you are not able to say when you are going to lead the congregation in prayer during a service, there is a problem. Choose a time in the service and allocate who is leading prayer and what you want for it. A good test is to think how you would treat the preparation of sung worship in terms of planning etc and then make sure prayer in the service is at least as good and focussed as that.
  3. Twice a day, as part of your daily devotional times, include praying the Psalms and/ or a traditional Daily Office.
    There are lots of modern versions of a liturgy of the hours or something similar. However, to be honest, I think you are better off with one of the older ones from a historic denomination. For me, the best you can do is get the free “Daily Office” app. It is a Catholic app, devoted to systematically praying through the Psalms and uses many of the ancient prayers of the Church. If you don’t want to use a prayer book then read three Psalms (give or take, depending on the Psalm length)twice a day as part of morning and evening prayer.

Throughout this article I have focused on the pragmatic reasons for immersing yourself in the Church’s historic prayers. There is, however, another even more powerful reason to do so. These prayers have been collected, edited, arranged and prayed over millennia. Praying them each day as part of a disciplined prayer life won’t just make you better at praying; it will bring you joy. Ultimately every worship leader themselves needs to draw close to Christ. Disciplined prayer with the church will help you to do that.

Further Reading and Resources

If you want to explore these ideas further or get into praying with the Church, here are some resources to get you started.

Books about this type of prayer for evangelicals:

Prayer Books or Apps

How Can We Do Sung-Worship Well?

We love sung worship. But how can we do it well, love others, and honour our core values?

Introduction

In my (Charismatic Protestant) branch of the Church we love sung worship. Sung worship is very important to us as it has been throughout the history of the Church. 

This is not just a question of taste or preference. It expresses something profound about who we are and how we encounter God on a deep level. St Augustine wrote that “singing is for one who loves” while an ancient proverb reads that “he who sings, prays twice”.1 In the New Testament we find Christ and his disciples singing as they head for the Mount of Olives on the night of his betrayal,  St Paul commanding the church in Ephesus to “[speak] to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Finally, John’s vision of heaven echoes with the sound of the song of the redeemed and angelic bests falling before the glorified and exalted Lamb of God.

Sung worship is powerful. It draws us close to God in our minds and our hearts. It can lift the brokenhearted and put strength in the legs of the weary. To lead sung worship is a wonderful and fearsome thing. The words we sing, particularly when we are young, are the words we carry with us and which in times of exaltation and desolation we will reach for to find comfort, hope and to direct our paths. To some extent, therefore, to lead sung worship is to stand as liturgist, preacher, counsellor and guide for the whole congregation.

The songs we sing reflect and shape who we are, who we will become and what we will become. This means we need to take sung worship seriously. Doing it well is a priority for us.  

At my church are blessed to be led in the sung parts of our services by some gifted and godly leaders and singers. We want to empower and trust you to lead in accordance with the gifts God has given each of you. These guidelines are given in order to enable us to benefit from you and you to grow as you minister to us.

Values Behind Sung-Worship

At HBC we find it helpful to think about what we do and believe in terms of core values. We want to be people who are Bible saturated, Spirit dependent, loving of others, and courageous in mission. Each of these has relevance to sung worship.

Bible Saturated

Sung worship needs to be saturated with truth both about God and about us. This flows from two ideas we find in Scripture and the Christian Tradition.

Responding to Truth

First, sung worship flows from Truth because it is a response to what we have seen of God. For example, in Revelation 14:1-3 John describes the scene in heaven as he sees “the Lamb, standing on Mount Zion” followed in response by overwhelming music “like that of harpists playing their harps. And they sang a new song before the throne.” 

Sung worship, in this sense, is not the warm up to get us in the right place to begin to worship. It is also not something that we come to “cold”, so to speak. As both worship leaders and a congregation we sing in response to the reality of who God is being revealed to us. This is why our services begin with prayer for God to draw worship from us followed by a reading from Scripture or a testimony. We sing in response to God. It also means that as worship and service leaders we need to be immersed in worship and Scripture throughout the week so that we have seen Christ and can respond to him in faith as we lead others.

Communicating Truth

Second, sung worship is Bible saturated because when we sing we are teaching. In Colossians 3:16, Paul writes:

Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.

Singing is teaching. Even more than a sermon, the sung worship in our services shapes how people think about God and themselves. At its most basic level this means that the songs we sing must be biblically orthodox.

In addition to each song’s content being true in itself, the balance of song themes and contents overall must be helpful, forming the congregation in a particular way. For example, we should ensure that over the course of a typical month we are singing hymns and songs  that reflect on who God is in himself, on what he has done for us (chiefly in Jesus) and on our response to, and experience of,  him.

Ensuring this happens is a partnership between the sung worship leader and the Elders and other leaders in the church. We need to be meeting regularly to reflect, pray and oversee what we are doing and ensure it is biblically sound and balanced.

Spirit Dependent

In addition to being Bible saturated, sung worship should also be Spirit dependent. Again, this has multiple dimensions.

Prepared in Prayer

Being Spirit dependent means, first and foremost, being immersed in prayer. This begins in the week prior to the service as everyone involved in leading seeks Christ for both the inspiration and the ability to worship. As the Psalmist prays:

Open my lips, Lord, and my mouth will declare your praise.

But prayer does not cease when we begin to lead. Rather, prayer becomes for the worshipper a disposition of our hearts, orienting ourselves towards Christ, listening all the time even as we sing for what the Spirit might be saying to us and through us.

Prepared to Pray

Being Spirit dependent means being willing to pray at the front of church if it seems appropriate and right. The sung worship leader is also, at that moment, the chief liturgist in the church, shaping how we, as a people, respond to what we were heard either in prayer or, if appropriate, through the prophetic gifts. 

Obviously, this looks different at different points in the service and depends on whether there are, for example, young children present or a preacher has gone over his allocated time. What is important is the posture of prayer and a willingness and confidence to respond to it if it seems right.

Flexibility

Finally, while the Sunday worship service has a high degree of order to it both to enable us to worship well and to make it accessible for guests, especially if they were young children, part of being Spirit dependent in leading sung worship is flexibility. 

Depending on what the Spirit is doing, you might want to swap out a song for one you think is more appropriate at that moment. Generally that is fine;we would encourage and support you in that. Equally the overall service leader (if they are a different person) might want to drop or add a song or silence to enable a different form of response. Again, this is fine;  we want to listen to what the Spirit is saying and doing.

Courageous in Mission and Loving of Others

What, then, of our final two values? To be courageous in mission as a sung worship leader means to be willing to be vulnerable by being on display at the front of church. To stand in front of a room of one hundred or more people and sing is already an act of courage, not least because it requires you publicly to declare your faith in a way that is not required of an ordinary church member.

More than this, however, there is courage in leading sung worship for a church that comprises a wide range of people of different ages and backgrounds. Doing so well requires the leader to deny their own desires and preferences in order to minister effectively to the congregation.

In turn this leads us to our final value, being loving of others. For the sung worship leader this consists of two principles. 

First, they should practise so that they know the songs they are singing and are able to lead as well and as unobtrusively as they are able. To serve well is itself an act of love. 

Second, however, the sung worship leader shows love for others by denying their own preferences in relation to presentation, set length or song choice in order effectively to minister to the needs of the congregation. In this way they choose to focus their selection around how first to love and honour God and then second to serve the needs of the other. This is essentially an ascetic practice and as such is not pleasant. Yet in the midst of the discomfort, and even occasional irritation, that accompanies all forms of self-denial for the sake of another, there is the opportunity to become closer to Christ both for the leader (who embodies his self-giving love) and for the congregation (who sees the love of Christ reflected in the leader’s love for them).

  1. Augustine, Sermon 336. ↩︎